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Amelia Beach Resort, Cenger, Turkey, 2012

The Water

To bond with my writer-husband, I killed a lone activist in my mind and buried him in the concrete of an outdoor pool.

Thumbnail from video interview of Barbara Hammer

Week 6: Lives out on a limb (Hammer & Hills version)

I attended a lecture by multimedia artist Barbara Hammer and fretted over the little money in my wallet at an Alice Hills gig.

illustration of padded wrist cuffs

That time he wanted to be my slave

Consenting to enslavement play is not actual enslavement, but fantasy does not

a sculpture of the letter p on a mirrored surface and under a red light

Release me

NSFW, so act accordingly.

opened book on person's lap with gray socks

Dating auf Deutsch

I understand more than enough to convey to Thomas that the woman is frankly zany.

hands held out in supplication

This is my prayer.

P.S. To a certain someone who is reading this blog: shhhhh... Your mouth is a tomb, remember?

unfastening a bra, rearview

The new bra

For our next date, choose the color you want me to wear. Again, your choices are black and blue.

Person taking pleasure in eating

Veal

...or my exaggerated notes of a drunken speech to Eleni on the popular rules of dating.

on a bike, looking into the setting Berlin sun

Rabbit.

I see my mother in the fat // of my chin, my father // in the moles that pepper // my skin.

berlin departures timetable

Arrivals and departures

Of my own departure, now these many months later, I will say that it was never my intention to stay.

display of many dildos in many colors

Next time, I will pack Ms. Purple.

Let's just say that I had a good time.

Grapefruit #unporn

High art in the low lands

She has a metal ring through her labia. Yes, I am watching that closely.

Stacked letters for LOVE

Tammi’s V-Day tip: never regret love.

This is definitely not my typical post. I admit to being an unrepentant romantic. And it’s the Hallmark Holiday! So… …a virtual hug to my friend, Vicki, for my SpongeBob Squarepants Valentine’s

person in suit and tie holding bouquet

The world is kinder than you believe.

I had set up three dates, connections with people that I had met via my network connections or the ever-helpful Craigslist.

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